Lately I noticed most of my friends are having problems with their relationships. At times I feel its such a waste for them to just throw away that relationship just like that just because they feel like that's the only way. I agree if he/she is an asshole or beats u up or cheated on you or anything that is not acceptable. But at times to be with someone means you love them,you see something special in them and they have great qualities that can make u a better person or will help u along your way in life.
Relationships is like a game a battle that you have to fight through to make it last. Of course you cannot expect it to be perfect. It is so impossible to not have petty arguments or don't see eye to eye on million things and quarrel over small things that is not important at all. But sometimes its just to let us learn to accept each other more and understand each other or just to make us feel we miss and love each other more.
I have been through some relationships that didn't make sense before,but for now I can say I truly understand that having a relationship can make you or break you. So far it has been making me a better person have make me a stronger and more confident person. Its amazing what love can do but all you need is faith and believe. But you need the right person to make you feel all the good thing in a relationship. A person that you feel you can totally relate to and your soul is like a magnet to the other person.
The best way is just to go with the flow because I cannot say that I'm gonna spend my whole life with this person. Life has a lot to offer and you will never know what will happened in the future. But be sure to make every relationship as an experience whether it's bad or good it will still somehow help you in your relationship or understand other people's relationship.
xoxo
Kisses,
-aNne-
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ReplyDeletei especially like the last paragraph cos currently i've been metaphorically speaking, have chosen my life living that way - go with the flow part. it makes life so much easier and lets u stress-less. and it's true though, how much i am in love (am not saying i am though lol), i can never say that i will end up marrying him. not because i dont want to, but like u say, life has so much to offer n we can never predict what would happen next, right? :)
i is like this post. *chuckles*
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Inden!!ehehehe..trimas trimas but u describe it in a much much better way la ok!hehehehehe..
ReplyDeletewell im currently listening to lots of relationship problems baaa but then some of them are like "WTF???" and some is like "ngam laa tuu.."LOL~so i wanna give a piece of my mind laa but indirectly way.hahaha
xoxo